Are you persistent with things you do throughout your life? Being persistent helps to keep yourself on track. It drives you to achieve your goals, and it gives you the ability to not take no for an answer. It’s proven that people that are persistent get what they want. If you are determined to get something done, most of the time you will achieve it. You have to be relentless in your actions. 2 weeks ago was no different for my son and I when we had gone archery hunting for the elusive buck!
I didn’t start hunting until about 10 years ago. Growing up I had uncles that were big into hunting, but my mom hated guns and would never allow me to go. I eventually stopped asking and moved on to other outdoor activities. About 10 years ago my father in law told me to buy my license and he would provide me with everything else. If I didn’t like it I would just be out the price of the license. So that’s what I did. I remember opening day of rifle season in PA. It was raining that morning and continued the entire day. We went out and only saw one doe the entire day, but for some reason I loved it! I enjoy being outdoors, but something about it really got me going. I hunted a few more times that season with my uncle and saw a few more doe, but never had a shot. The following year I decided to buy a compound bow and take up archery. A friend of mine helped get me started and tought me how to shoot. That season I saw so many deer it was amazing. I even shot at a few, but missed! It was very hard for me to accept the fact that I didn’t get a deer. It was unlike anything that I had done in the past. It was much more difficult to get gratification. After that season I practiced shooting a lot that summer into the fall. I shot from all different heights and even thought about standing on my roof a time or two. I was determined to get a deer the next season. And I did, my first doe! It wasn’t the biggest deer, but I was very proud of what I had accomplished! 3 years later I got my first buck and 2 more since then. It proved to me that being persistent with what you wanted will pay off in the end.
Last year I got my son his first mentorship hunting license. He had been out with me a hand full of times to sit, but this time he was able to shoot a crossbow. We saw deer last year, and even had a spike at about 60 yards. He just never came to a comfortable distance for him to shoot. That day my son got his first taste of Buck Fever! When he set up to look through the scope he was breathing so heavy and his knees were shaking. After the buck left and he sat down he asked me “Dad, why was I doing that?” I said that’s called buck fever and if that ever leaves you then you need to stop hunting. He just laughed and still couldn’t stop shaking. That was a great day that I will never forget.
Fast forward to this year and he was even more excited than before. He would get mad if I would sneak out in the morning and not take him. We practiced a bit more this year than last to try and get even better at shooting. 2 weeks ago it just felt like a great evening to hunt. The wind was right, the temps were comfortable and the woods were quiet. We sat for about 2 and a half hours and hadn’t seen anything. Right before dark a deer came from our right. I saw that it was a buck, and since he is 9 he can shoot any size. I whispered “it’s a buck buddy get ready!” He grabbed the crossbow and turned to his right. The buck came right out into the path at 25 yards and stopped dead. I said he’s broad side so shoot when your ready. No sooner did I say that and he pulled the trigger. It was like slow motion watching the lighted nock fly through the air and then you heard it hit, THUMP! The deer kicked and ran down the hill. He sat down breathing so heavy and said “Dad did I hit it, did I hit it?” I smiled and said yeah buddy you hit him! A fist pump in the air and a high five made my day! It was awesome seeing how he reacted to his hard work! I had a feeling he might have hit him a little far back and when we got down to get the arrow I was right. We decided to wait an hour and look. We had good blood but followed him for about 200 yards or so and lost blood. We decided to back out and come back the next morning…
He was up early ready to go and find his deer which was very nice to see. His friend also wanted to come and help so the 3 of us searched the woods for about an hour and a half. It didn’t look good and it had rained the night before. We decided that we were not going to give up though so we just kept on walking down a trail we thought he might have went. Sure enough about 150 yards from where we last saw blood a 4 point was laying on the side of the trail, and the fist pumps started! It was awesome!
It felt good showing my son that persistence pays off. He was dedicated to shoot better this year. He was determined to go out as many times as he could every chance he had. And we were both relentless in our quest to find this deer!
When you have injuries or you are in pain the last thing you want to do is just give up. You have to be persistent in your efforts to get well. Set goals and strive for them. Don’t take no for an answer. And if someone tells you no then you change your approach until you get what you want.